I’ve been chatting with lots of folks lately about making the transition within their organization from the role of trainer to that of performance consultant.
In doing this, one question keeps arising, “What do we do when they (the clients) push back on us?”
There’s a really simple reason behind this… we’ve TRAINED them to push back!
In most cases when our clients come calling and tell US what type of training they want, how long it will be and when they would like it – we usually comply. We want to make sure we’re supporting them, right? Wrong! We’re actually stifling their development. They don’t know what performance consulting is. And by following their direction (who’s the expert on performance here?) we are shortchanging them on the knowledge and skills needed to manage performance.
So, when we PUSH back and start to inquire about the desired behavior they are seeking and what may be getting in the way of the desired performance (yes, it’s most likely NOT a training issue), they’re initial reaction is to resist this behavior because in most cases that’s all they know. This “pushing back” is not a signal for us to acquiesce but rather one to alert us to gently PULL them along with us down the path of the performance consulting process.
So next time you’re feeling the “push,” remember, don’t go along. Instead, do an about face and pull them in the direction of performance consulting. Everyone will benefit from it – especially the learners. And isn’t that what it’s all about?
~Maria Chilcote, Managing Partner, The Training Clinic
www.thetrainingclinic.com